Man-in-Progress

No one as a child or when you leave home from college ever trains you on how to deal with changes in your life. No one ever tells you that when you make progress people will dislike you for things out of your control – that when you hold people to certain standards, you willContinue reading “Man-in-Progress”

Save Me

I don’t want to be hurt. I really don’t want to be hurt. I know no one wants to be hurt, but I really don’t want to give a guy the power to hurt me. I don’t want anyone to hurt me. It’s taken me too long to make it to this point and I don’t wantContinue reading “Save Me”

Tears Stream

My grandmother cried as I stood in front of her. My mom smiled with happiness that I was there. I surprised them both by coming home for my uncle’s memorial and funeral. It wasn’t a financial luxury I had but I knew it would make all the difference for them. Friday brought familiar faces backContinue reading “Tears Stream”

I Heard You Were a Wild One!

Sometimes I’m lonely. I think how nice it would be to have a guy to cuddle with. But at what cost? A guy we can just sit together and talk about random, small moments of our day. It could lead to more. “I’m Jarryd and I’m a virgin.” “Hi, Jarryd!” “I’ve just started to be comfortableContinue reading “I Heard You Were a Wild One!”

Illuminating Blogger Award Nomination!

Becca with the blog College Life – Sex and Relationships nominated my blog for the Illuminating Blogger Award Thursday, May 31.  Blogs are nominated for their illuminating and informative content. First, I have to say thank you to her for her support. Thank you to everyone who reads my blog continuously and just once. I love sharing myContinue reading “Illuminating Blogger Award Nomination!”

A Look Back: Naturally Made

Here is “A Look Back” at my past week through my weekly photo journal post. Embrace who you and enjoy what’s natural in this world! Namaste! Last weekend I went home to visit my family and catch up with friends. I hung out with grandmothers. A love living down the street from a Farmer’s MarketContinue reading “A Look Back: Naturally Made”

Go Home

Go home. No, not to the space you enter every day after work or class and entertain friends at. Go to your hometown. Go back to the place you grew up, but better yet, stay away for a while and then go back. This is your chance to reflect, to ponder, to wonder. Look atContinue reading “Go Home”

A Look Back: Find Comfort & Confidence

Here is “A Look Back” at my past week through my weekly photo journal post! Find comfort and confidence in your life!  We have a winner! Sometimes we just need to be in touch with our inner child through go-karts, laser tag and arcade games! Week after week I’ve burnt the pancakes I made! I’m finally learningContinue reading “A Look Back: Find Comfort & Confidence”

Be a Survivor, Not a Victim

Don’t be a victim. Be a survivor. A survivor has strength, determination, hope. A victim is defeated. A survivor overcomes. We are masters of our fate. We deserve to be happy so we don’t accept treatment we don’t deserve. These are our lives. We must do what we want with them. We can’t be shackled to the chains of ourContinue reading “Be a Survivor, Not a Victim”

It Could Happen to You

One day I want to marry a man that makes me want to be a better man. On our wedding day I want to look him in the eye and feel like I won’t find anyone better, because of the bond we have. At times I may feel insecure that he chose to be with me for theContinue reading “It Could Happen to You”